I do not get an orgasm during sex. The reason for me or a guy who can 5-8min..or we do not match each other in sex?

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������������Answered on June 19, 2015 10:26
The reason may be any of the three. Either you do not relax enough, etc., yourself, or you need a longer foreplay and more time to reach orgasm, or yes - you are incompatible. Try something new together, try to tune yourself up somehow, increase the prelude, etc.
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I offer something new, but here�s the problem � the guy is somehow passive. He�s only 25, and he gets tired after a couple of minutes. He�s an egoist in such a relationship; there is no one with him, he is my first one. I can�t do it anymore, we�re together for 5 years, but I feel I�ll leave soon I do not know what to do!
������������Answered on June 19, 2015 10:43, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
Passivity in sex is bad. You need to take care not only that you feel good, but also that the partner be good too. He must understand this. Here are many couples who deny the great role of sex for love relationships and for good reason, good sex is really important. Try to explain it to him, let him try. Then think yourself and weigh the pros and cons, and you will understand whether to part or not.
������������Answered on June 19, 2015 13:58, Yane | ������������ ��������
Thank you, Butterfly! I became very obsessed with this .. and I understand that because of such a relationship I became very aggressive, but I so want him to guess that I don�t get emotional detente, but he apparently doesn�t give a damn ... unfortunately, I start thinking about other guys, I feel like a traitor, but he doesn't excite me anymore as before, probably, partly, I'm also to blame for this!
������������Answered on June 19, 2015 14:25, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
It is not recommended to keep silence in a relationship. Because of this, there may be different problems, I know for myself. You must understand each other. Tell him if he loves, must understand. And what you feel is normal. In a relationship, there must be good sex.
������������Answered on June 22, 2015 10:59, Yane | ������������ ��������
You see, everything is very difficult.What I like is not like him, and he does not want to do that. Everything is the same for us. Bed-sofa-sofa-bed. In the car, he is uncomfortable, it is cold and scary outside. The same posture, top-bottom. So he is uncomfortable, so he gets tired. Tired already. The pleasure of such as before, no! I want stiffness, as in 50 shades (if you know), but not the same, of course, with sticks and whips. I want to be blindfolded, to be tied ... but he is not like that, he does not like all this, to my great regret. Here I think try aphrodisiac can ?! If this does not work out.
������������Answered on June 22, 2015 11:45, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
Yes, everything is simple. If such things, then I think that you are simply incompatible in temperament, that's all. So it will continue further, nothing will change. Do you need it? Nothing will help, and you will not change a person by force.
������������Answered 23 June 2015 12:29, Yana | ������������ ��������
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Forget to revive this corpse - throw it and look further your happiness. Nothing will help him, especially an aphrodisiac ...
������������Answered on June 23, 2015 12:36, Yane | ������������ ��������
I also think that we should leave. I do not want to suffer all my life, especially since we have problems not only in bed, but also in general! And I am only 20 .. but my problem is that I can not throw it out of pity .. all waiting for a reason that will definitely help me to finish.
������������Answered on June 23, 2015 14:17, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
Do not believe me. Are you simply incompatible, is that all you regret? You will find the one who suits you, he is the one that suits him. Moreover, you still have other problems. No need to continue, none of you will become happier. It may be sick to leave, but then it will pass. Especially since you are only 20, the whole life is still ahead!
������������Answered on June 24, 2015 15:04, Yane | ������������ ��������
Thank you!)))
������������Answered on June 24, 2015 21:22, Butterfly | ������������ ��������
������������Answered on June 21, 2015 00:40
You know, you can advise a lot, but if your boyfriend does not have the desire to correct, the result will be zero. Be sure to talk to him, say that egoism is not the best feature, but it is generally unacceptable in sex. Let him keep pace, not accelerate, when he feels that he is going to finish soon - he will pull out seconds by 10 and continue, so you can significantly extend sex. If he cannot keep it purely physiological - teach him to do business with his fingers or kuni) Also, your boyfriend may not be very inclined to have sex due to external problems, because otherwise he will perceive it not as a way of giving pleasure to both of you, but as a biological need, relax it before it and relax yourself.And yet, if you are used to having sex in the dark - give up this habit, it "alienates" the guy and the girl in sex.

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