Types of people you should get rid of quickly
No. 1: Gossips
A very unpleasant type of people, which occurs in almost any company. More often it is women, but men are also found among gossips. Without your request and desires, gossipers pour a lot of piquant information about your mutual friends on you. Who is sleeping with whom, who is not sleeping with whom, who has left from whom, who has come together with whom. They will discuss with you someone else's property and other people's children, will dedicate you to all the intimate details.
At some point, it may even seem to you that you are simply trusted with very valuable information, but over time you will notice how difficult it is for you to get someone else’s "underwear" piled on you. People around become as if naked, and this makes it very uncomfortable. But the most annoying thing you need to know about gossipers is that they, as a rule, do not “wear” in one direction. If you are told gossip about someone, then, most likely, they also tell someone about you. And not the fact that something pleasant.
Therefore, communication with gossips better to nullify. If this is not possible due to the fact that you, for example, work together, then at least do not devote them to the details of your personal life and do not discuss other people with them. “I'm not interested”, - the most correct answer to attempts to gossip with you.
No. 2: Eternal Sacrifices
Eternal victims are very common and very annoying. They always have some problems, and someone is always to blame for these problems. Someone, but not they. The wife / husband does not like it, the bosses do not appreciate, the salary is too small, the power is not the same, the country is not the same, well, everything in that spirit.
I remember once a colleague complained about how he was put in hospital because of heart problems. When I said bluntly that it would be nice to quit drinking alcohol and smoking, I rolled my eyes and offendedly declared that it was all about nothing, he just had stress.
The eternal victims have zero responsibility, because they have already safely transferred it to someone else. It's not even an hour and you find yourself guilty of something, so the less you contact with such people, the better. No need to feel sorry for them, they themselves regret for ten.
No. 3: pathological liars
Lies are an integral part of our life, it’s hard to argue with that. Everyone has ever been told a lie for the sake of their own peace or benefit, but there are people who lie constantly and without any reason. They so often lie to others that they themselves are confused in their lies.
After some time, it becomes incomprehensible to communicate with such a person - whether he told the truth or lied once again. It comes to the fact that he does not believe, even when he does not lie. Communication with such people is terribly exhausting. If there are any in your environment, get rid of them. Let them tell their tales to others.
No. 4: hypocrites
This type of people is dangerous and unpleasant because their attitude towards you is completely insincere. And even if from the outside it seems that they treat you warmly and friendly, in fact it's all just a semblance. Their nature is manifested at random. For example, when you need to ask for help, they will refuse you. Or you will learn from acquaintances that someone is not very good about you, although you are smiling and fawning in front of you.
Such people are worse than outspoken boors, because they can hide their nature and pretend to be benevolent to you.Surrounding tend to trust them, but in the end get a knife in the back. Conversation with them should be short. Remember the hypocrite some episode of his misbehavior and explain that if he speaks badly about you behind your back, you do not need his lying smiles.
No. 5: Envious people
Everyone who achieves at least some success in life, sooner or later envious appear. Sometimes they are very well disguised as friends, but, unlike real friends, they are never truly happy for you. They for some reason are sure that you do not deserve all that you have, but in your place, they must necessarily be.
Envious people not only do not rejoice in others' successes, but mentally always wish failure to the object of envy. They are happy if a colleague broke a new expensive car, rejoice, if a friend left her husband. Do you need such people among friends? Probably not.
And another important nuance: among the envious never successful people. And communication with losers to you, too, is unlikely to benefit. Feel free to stop any contact!
No. 6: lovers all criticize
They condemn everyone and everything around. In any case, they stick their noses and be sure to present their valuable opinion to the world.They are never satisfied with anything. Have you visited an interesting movie? Oh, pops cheap! Have you bought a new coat? What a bad taste! We decided to go to the resort? Could find a more interesting hotel!
They will never approve or praise anything. So is it worth it to spend beads how much? Tell the useless interlocutor that you are completely satisfied with your choice, and you would not be interested in his opinion. Let not waste power.
No. 7: Beggars
Whenever such a person calls you or writes, you begin to think what he will ask for this time. Beggars love to be friends with those who, in their opinion, are a valuable resource for them. For example, who can borrow money or ask to do some work for free.
They are always nice and friendly, until you meet them. It is necessary to refuse only once - become the enemy number one. Given that the beggars all the time want something from others, they themselves are not ready to give. They always just take, take and take.
Not bothered to feed the parasite? Let him go to beg elsewhere, and you are not hired to be a nurse for an adult. Give up time, another - and more will not bother you.
№ 8: pessimists
Such people are always dissatisfied with life. Where they are, there is always sadness and longing. The danger of pessimists is that they have a fantastic ability to infect others with their pessimism. You notice how the mood immediately spoils, faith in your success weakens, the glass begins to seem half empty, and life becomes a meaningless existence.
Do not allow yourself to pull out of life and force you down with a positive wave. Say that you do not like whiners and do not intend to listen to their howls. It often seems that such people are capable of harming themselves because of eternal depression. You can try to help a person if you want it that way, but do not forget that the responsibility for his actions lies only with him, and not with those around him.
No. 9: trolls
These creatures live not only on the Internet, but also occur in real life. They consider their flat jokes and taunts to be witty, although from the side they look like complete idiots. Those who met them little in the open spaces of the Network, very painfully perceive what they have said, although very often they say not at all what they really think, but that which touches the interlocutor more strongly. In general, very unpleasant people.To argue with them and prove something is useless, because of this they only get more started. The best solution is a full ignore or return trolling.
No. 10: Manipulators
A very dangerous type of people who cannot always be calculated right away. Manipulators are gradually rebuilding your value system so that you can turn it around as you like. They use words and phrases whose purpose is to distort your attitude towards reality. It seems to you that these are your thoughts and your principles, but in fact they were inspired by an experienced manipulator.
Why does he need it? To make you do what is beneficial to him. For example, he can play on your desire to be the perfect hostess. He will say that you are not distinguished by culinary skills, unlike his mother, for example. And you, wanting to prove to him the opposite, begin to cook from morning till evening, like a hired cook. Only here the cooks pay for it, and you do everything for free. And you are not doing what you want, but what the manipulator wanted.
As soon as you notice the actions that you didn’t really want to perform, analyze how it all began. And if the chain starts to lead to the same person over and over again, immediately stop all contacts.And remember: a person who lives in harmony and comfort with his own "I", less than the others is subject to manipulation.
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